I have some bad news for the ladies. Actually, it may not be news, but it’s definitely bad, and here goes: A lot of guys have no idea what they are doing when it comes to having relationships with women. The problem presents itself in various ways: The guy who pressures women. The guy who persists in behaviors unattractive to women and wonders why he’s lonely. The guy bewildered before a woman’s changeable and sometimes capricious feelings. Even worse, the guy who treats women roughly or abusively because he cannot understand that they differ from his video game and sports buddies.